You would think being married would mean you automatically have a Valentine. Well, for many married folks it's just not the case. In fact, for some married couples Valentine's Day is just a painful reminder of what they don't have. Marriage is blissful for most, bland for some and painful for others. It's one of those days on the calendar that is hard to ignore. Women brag about their diamonds, roses and fine chocolates. Men gossip about how romantic they were and pat themselves on the back. Then there are those who are only grateful that the day has come and gone.